tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63920042174889616002024-02-18T19:10:18.716-08:00Rheum For LoveAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08938257720316568395noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6392004217488961600.post-61323290383199625682015-09-14T13:51:00.001-07:002015-09-14T14:10:43.837-07:00The Spoon Theory written by and spoken by Christine Miserandino<div style="text-align: center;">
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If you haven't heard of "<a href="http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/" target="_blank">The Spoon Theory" </a>written by<a href="http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/about/christine-miserandino/" target="_blank"> Christine Miserandino</a> yet, please click the link above and read how she explains what it's like to live with sickness or disability. Thank you Christine for coming up with such a brilliant analogy that we can use to explain to others what day to day life can be like for people with chronic illness.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08938257720316568395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6392004217488961600.post-46246676938753840222015-07-17T11:50:00.001-07:002015-09-14T13:01:47.064-07:00What Pain Teaches You <div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="color: #999999;"><i>I'm not talking about a few aches and pains. The kind of pain I am accustomed to is indescribable and unimaginable that a person can bear with on a daily basis. There's no way I can make anyone understand this kind of pain unless you personally experience it yourself. Rather than trying to come up with one hundred different words to describe pain, in this post I'm going to share that in order to survive through this pain, you must believe that pain is here for something good. That the pain is here to guide you and help someone else who might be struggling and feeling lost and alone.</i></span><br />
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Pain has taught me that there is darkness and I need to let the darkness in. Don't fear it or avoid it.<b> <i>The darkness is there to guide you to the beauty that will follow. </i></b><br />
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When you're body is sick, your mind and spirit aren't well either. There will be depression, anger, grief and a whole heaping pile of emotions that comes along with illness. Don't beat yourself up, your body is doing the best it can trying to fight off extraordinary pain. Be<b><i> gentle</i> </b>and <i><b>kind </b></i>to your body. This isn't the life you wanted but it's the life you've got. Turn the negative energy (anger, sadness and/or grief) around into something positive and useful. If you're unable to work, volunteer, take a class or discover a new talent. Explore new things and do what you<b><i> LOVE </i></b>to do. Bake cookies for your neighbor or do something kind for someone you love. <b><i>Spread the goodness that comes from your heart.</i></b><br />
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It's easy to get wrapped up in pain and sickness where it's all you can focus on. Don't get stuck in this vicious cycle. Don't ignore your body, but try and get your mind off of pain when you can. If you're unable to get out of bed one day, make sure you're <i><b>aware</b></i> of your thinking pattern. If your thoughts become negative, let the negative thoughts in, but then practice turning these thoughts around into something positive. If the pain is full force or your too tired (physically or mentally) try listening to soothing music, watching a good t.v. show, read a good book, pray/meditate, or make a list of small and/or big goals you can accomplish for when you're feeling better. Remember to be realistic with your goals and that it's okay if you need to ask for help.</div>
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<b><i>Learn to listen to your body's needs and when it whispers to you that it's had enough. Rest when you need to and keep moving when you're able to.</i></b></div>
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You won't be in control (of your pain and fatigue) sometimes and that's okay. I believed that a part of fighting this illness was that I must be in control of all situations at all times, but it only causes more anger and frustration.You'll be happier and more relaxed when you <i><b>learn to let go and go with the flow</b>. </i>Acknowledge the pain and/or fatigue and care for your body. Take a warm or cool shower, try gentle stretching, ice packs/heating pads, get a massage, and have lots of comfy pillows/fuzzy things.<br />
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You will be questioned, judged and ridiculed about your illness. Don't let other people's opinions get you down. <i><b>Believe in yourself</b> </i>even if no one seems to believe in you. Once you start believing in yourself and being true to yourself, others will come around. Or they might not, but that's okay too because it will guide you to the people you need in your life. </div>
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<b><i>You are never alone.</i></b> Don't isolate yourself or give up on yourself or others. Reach out if the pain becomes too much for you to carry by yourself. There are others out there that are willing to help you even if they don't fully understand.</div>
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You may want to give up and you might give up for a little while. But ALWAYS get back up even it's painful and difficult. Embrace the pain, your struggle just means your story needs to be heard.<br />
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<i><b>"Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there's something for you to do in the world. So long as you can sweeten another's pain, life is not vain." -Helen Keller </b></i><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08938257720316568395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6392004217488961600.post-5563922415804214872015-03-17T09:28:00.001-07:002015-07-25T18:37:59.252-07:00Removing The Mask <br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">"Pain is always new to the sufferer, but loses it's originality for those around him. " "Everyone will get used to it except me." -Alphonse Daudet </span></i><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I want to be understood in a way I can never be understood. That's a reality I have to learn to accept with invisible pain. I try to explain until my face turns blue, but my words are often forgotten.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Speaking out lout about pain doesn't come easy for me. It's awkward for everyone, and no one knows how to respond. The normal response is pity, and pity is uncomfortable.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Last week it was my boyfriend's 30th birthday, and I wanted to bake him a cake. We were also invited over to his brother's house for dinner. These are all things you normally wouldn't stress about, and people who don't live with chronic pain don't have to usually think twice about.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">All day I was cautious of everything I did, so I wouldn't use up all of my energy (<a href="http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/" target="_blank">spoons</a>) so I wouldn't be stuck in bed. I did not want to jeopardize making my boyfriend his birthday cake and joining his family for dinner that evening. It's important that I let go and show the real me. I want to be a part of his family more than anything. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The time came where we were getting ready to leave for his family's house and I crashed. I ignored the pain for as long as I could until I was tired. I lay in bed until the pain was not as severe, and I could get up and walk with a shuffle.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was able to make him his birthday cake, and we ended up making it to his family's house for a nice dinner. Nothing comes without a consequence with illness. I had a difficult time concentrating and talking, and I wondered if anyone noticed. If they did noticed anything at all, it was probably my awkwardness, clumsiness and the periods of time where I became silent. At one point, I was sitting on the bench they have at the dinner table, and I decided to prop my leg up because my right ankle and hip were sharp and throbbing. I was talking with my boyfriend's sister in law, and I moved in some way that my knee shot out of the socket. My whole body froze, and my heart started to pound. I could feel my face starting to turn red and my eyes starting to tear. I quietly shifted my knee and it made a loud crack back into my knee socket. All while going unnoticed and still carrying on a conversation. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I become extremely nervous around others while in pain. I know they can feel the nervousness too. This type of pain is hard to fake, and I have a more difficult time trying to 'act' healthy. Trying to cover it up makes me nervous because all I can think about is my joints being stabbed and pulled apart.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Then there's sensory overload. When you're experiencing a lot of pain, it's difficult to socialize because pain makes it almost impossible to think. <a href="http://princessinthetower.org/how-chronic-pain-affects-your-friendships-and-what-to-do-about-it/" target="_blank">"The more people in the room the greater the stimulus on your nervous system, and consequently your pain."</a></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">I'm becoming less social these days than I'd like to. It's difficult to engage with people while hurting all over (it's all you can think about) and I will then become quiet and end up leaving the room. It's not that I don't want to be around anyone because I don't like their company, but that I'm physically more comfortable in a room that's quiet.</span><br />
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<b>I have a strong hold on acting healthy and pain free, it's a coping method and a way to avoid pity. </b>Acting pain free one moment, and then not being able sit up right the next, is confusing to others and causes judgment. I don't always have the words to describe the pain I'm feeling. The severity of the pain ranges from tolerable, and able to carry out some activities, to intolerable where I can't speak.</span><br />
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<b>It's not fun to surrender to pain, and when I have to, I like to do so in private, because it usually involves sadness, anger, and sometimes tears. It also involves telling myself that the pain does not define who I am, and I need to be kind and not hard on myself. </b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Even the strongest are weakened by pain and tests the strongest souls. It's a constant pull and pain changes people. The loss of abilities that once defined who you were, are powerful and sad. </b><b>I have to try and regain strength everyday to overcome endless limitations, lack of living, and loss to not let it take over. </b></span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08938257720316568395noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6392004217488961600.post-63713527153366603812015-03-16T15:15:00.003-07:002015-03-24T07:16:46.092-07:00Old, New Or Same?<div style="text-align: left;">
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<span style="color: #666666; font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">I made up a list of frustrations I have learned to either cope with and/or ignore over the years. Some of these things I'm still trying to overcome and accept. Some days are better than others.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">This is not a negative post. I had a tiny breakdown today, it happens every now and again. Living with <a href="http://rawarrior.com/rheumatoid-arthritis-ra-information/" target="_blank">Rheumatoid Arthritis</a> is a roller coaster ride. Ignore the commercials you see for Biologic medications and treating RA. Pharmaceutical companies want a more upbeat approach in regards to RA and want you to believe the disease is just a nuisance. Their treatments have been referred to as "pain relievers". This doesn't help to promote awareness for a more concrete understanding of RA and it doesn't help to establish proper medical care for patients that are often presumed to be<a href="http://rawarrior.com/7-mistakes-the-media-makes-with-rheumatoid-arthritis/" target="_blank"> weak or malingering</a>. The word 'arthritis' in RA throws everyone off and doctors and patients have called it an<a href="http://www.the-rheumatologist.org/details/article/1311755/An_Identity_Crisis_for_RA.html" target="_blank"> "identity crisis"</a> for RA. <b><i>For t</i></b><i style="font-weight: bold;">he real people with rheumatoid disease (PRD), only 6% experience remission and a<a href="http://rawarrior.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/10-KEY-POINTS-ON-RA.pdf" target="_blank"> majority experience limited or no response (about one-third are non-responders and nearly 30% have only 20% improvement). </a> </i></span><b style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-style: italic;">RA doesn't start in the joints, it really starts in the blood. RA is actually a systemic inflammatory disease that attacks primarily, but not solely, the joints. <a href="http://rawarrior.com/7-mistakes-the-media-makes-with-rheumatoid-arthritis/" target="_blank">It is an incurable disease that is similar to Type 1 diabetes in that the disease can damage many different bodily systems. </a><a href="http://rawarrior.com/7-mistakes-the-media-makes-with-rheumatoid-arthritis/" target="_blank">PRD are twice as likely to experience unrecognized heart attacks and sudden cardiac death that is unrelated to traditional heart disease risk factors. Poorly functioning PRD have a survival rate comparable to stage IV Hodgkin's disease and three-vessel coronary artery disease. </a></b></div>
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Those are the facts, I'm not trying to be a downer. It's real and it can be frightening <span style="background-color: white;">and I'm tired of fighting the pain and most of all I don't want to fight this dragon alone anymore. No one gets it. I'm exhausted of having to explain RA (RD) daily and people brushing it off. I'm exhausted with playing doctor. Often times my doctor dismisses new occurring symptoms and joints (among other things) are being neglected. PRD need and deserve quality comprehensive care along with preventative care.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">My thyroid is going crazy and the term my doctor gave me is</span><a href="http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/thyroid-storm-topic-overview" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;" target="_blank"> "thyroid storm"</a><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> and it happens when your thyroid suddenly releases large amounts of thyroid hormones in a short period of time and is potentially life-threatening. My immune system is now attacking my thyroid as well as my joints. Almost everyday last week I was getting radio active iodine scans and ultrasounds to see if one of the nodules was malignant. I got the good news Monday that it was benign. I spent the last two weeks thinking of the possibility of having thyroid cancer. I was scared and I still am a little scared of what other </span><a href="http://rawarrior.com/rheumatoid-arthritis-complications/" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;" target="_blank">complications of RA </a><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">will come up and what will my immune system will attack next, but I try and not think of those things often. My doctor put me on beta-blockers for my heart and thyroid medication to stop the thyrotoxicosis, and the thyroid nodule has the possibility of becoming malignant in the future so surgery is recommended. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> My c-reactive protein (inflammation) is elevated (standard range is 0.00-0.30 and mine is 1.80). I'm concerned that the inflammation is not only occurring in my joints. </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I'm not responding to my current RD treatment and my doctor gave me a list of medications to choose from. I have to play doctor (with no medical degree) and try and decide from the information that I have researched to medicate myself. One particular medication has a risk of brain infection and others heart failure. How do I choose when they all seem to have the same amount of success rates? Do I toss a coin? Trial and error seems like my only option. I wish there were more ways my doctor would measure disease activity to determine the course of my treatment. Why isn't he taking it seriously and treating this aggressively? More questions for my next appointment. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I stay positive everyday by smiling through the tears. I get out of bed every morning despite the sharp, razor blade-like pain. My bathroom is only a few feet away, but most days it takes me several minutes to get there (and almost falling on my face) because it feels like there are ice picks jabbing me in my hips and ankles. The voice in my head always tells me "it can always be worse" and so, thank goodness I have a strong bladder!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><br />I've always been too proud to ask for help, but the truth is I need help more and more these days. The disease is progressing and I don't want to fight alone anymore. Fighting a war is much easier with a companion on your side. </span><br />
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In the meantime I want to thank my friends and family for being patient with me and listening even though you might not understand. <b>Your love and support helps keep me strong and resilient.</b></span><br />
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<i><b><span style="color: #3d85c6;">Post blog:</span></b><span style="color: #222222;"> Enduring the physical and emotional pain of RA (RD) alone can be daunting. I'm happy to report that after this blog post, my warmhearted aunt Cindy took off of work and joined me at my next appointment with my Rheumatologist. I'm very grateful she was by my side and took notes for me. Her calming presence and positive vibes made all the difference. </span></i></div>
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<i>I'm also grateful for my good friend David. He listens and doesn't change topics when I'm discussing RD and most importantly he doesn't judge. He is genuinely curious and asks questions about what's going on with me and is kind and offers to help. He keeps me company on days I can't go out of the house and keeps me smiling and laughing. What more can you ask for in a friendship? </i><br />
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<i>My good friend Eric knows the good, bad and ugly of RD and has seen the tears. Even though he lives in Boston he always makes sure to call often and see how things are going. I don't always feel like talking on the phone, but he's very understanding and patient. He makes me laugh and always looks at the bright side of things. He is able to perceive my hardships because he has also endured heartache and suffering. </i><br />
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<i>Last, but definitely not least, I'm grateful that I have my mother's support. I don't fake my pain around her and she is the only one that knows me inside and out. I don't ever have to explain anything to her, she can tell how I'm feeling just by the sound of my voice or a twitch in my face and is always immediately by my side to comfort me or massage the pain away. Her love overflows in abundance and eases my worries and fears. She puts me on my feet again. </i></div>
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<i><span style="color: #222222;">I feel the </span><span style="color: #cc0000;">love</span><span style="color: #222222;"> and it feels good.</span></i></div>
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